Ep. 28 Surviving Super-Empathy!

28. Surviving Super-Empathy

I recorded this one while at the beach, so there is a LOT of interesting sound texture in there, and you can also hear how happy I am to be outside in the sunshine.

This has got to be one of my favourite episodes so far – one of the big blocks people have about developing telepathically and intuitively is “What if I can’t handle the sad things in the animal kingdom / the world if I open up?”  Some people feel like they just can’t handle that kind of sensitivity.

Well I’ll tell you how *I* deal with it, and I promise you I am about as bleeding-heart of a tree-hugger as you’ll ever meet!


Ep. 27 Can ANYONE learn to be a medium??

27. can anyone learn to be a medium


This is a good episode for anyone who likes to hear me get fired up.  We go on a ranty tangent about psychics and mediums dissin’ each other (why can’t we all just get along?!)
Then we delve into the controversial idea of whether mediumship is something that *can* be taught?
The books I referred to are:
We branch out a bit from the Ecosystem of Pain post
Noel, this one is for you!  You are not alone, Noel, and I do my best to help with some psychic protection POV’s and techniques.
Your comments and questions are welcome!  Happy Tuesday, y’all.

Ep: Quickie! How do animals tell time???

Quickie Episode-


This quickie episode was inspired by a question on my facebook page.  It’s a great question, and the answer includes helping us to communicate time to our pets, as in, “Other Mom is coming home after three dark nights!”

This is a practical one, and a quickie!  If you’re curious why it’s so quick, please see the previous blog post.  😉

Love to you all!

The Vancouver Aquarium


Here’s the video of our conversation with the Vancouver Aquarium Sea Turtle



The Vancouver Aquarium has been under heavy public scrutiny and criticism for their beluga breeding program.  I decided I wanted to go and see them for myself before solidifying my own opinion.

As you can see in the video below, the focus of the demonstration was not on entertaining the people, but education.  We learned why these “tricks” were trained and how it was important to the whales’ daily care.

Certainly, these belugas are not being used and abused in the way the orcas and dolphins at Sea World and Marine Land are being exploited.  Comparatively, these whales are lucky.

For a half hour before this demonstration, Sweetie and I sat topside beside the aquarium and I talked to the leader.  There were two belugas, one was hanging out in the shallow “treatment pond”, and the leader was pacing the enclosure.  I didn’t know anything about the relationship between the two whales or their gender,  so I started out addressing the pacing “leader”.

She immediately made it clear she was the Mother, the other whale was “My Baby”.  She didn’t want people to look at her baby just now, so she had sent the baby into the treatment pond while she paced her enclosure restlessly.

Her behaviour pattern reminded me of the porcupine at Science North.  He was also restlessly pacing his enclosure in anticipation of the demonstration, a time they’re conditioned to look forward to because that’s when they get treats.

But the energy of this pacing behaviour isn’t excited, it’s itchy and restless.

I asked the Mother about her time in the aquarium.

She told me she’d arrived when she was very young, and had been happy with two other companions before they were moved.  She wondered what happened to them.  She had been artificially inseminated and become pregnant, and had her Baby.  The way the Mother was talking about this, I would have thought the Baby was only three years old.

The Mother told me how everything had changed for her after she had her baby.  Her body had become restless.  She had all these instincts about how to raise her Baby, all these things she should be teaching her Baby, all this migrating and feeding they should be doing.  She couldn’t do any of it, and she never stopped thinking about it.  In her mind she showed me an image of hundreds of belugas all together in a large channel.

Days later, Sweetie showed me this photo:

beluga whales


Animals (and people) are born with bodies that are programmed for survival.  The Mother’s body wants to be migrating, foraging and associating with hundreds of others of her species.  She wants to be looking after her Baby in the company of other Mothers, and protectively teaching her Baby all she needs to know to survive.

These instincts unlocked in her body after she became pregnant.  She’s felt restless ever since.


A friend of mine said to me, “If the Belugas at the Vancouver Aquarium had a consciousness, and you could explain to them that they’re hunted in the wild, I think they’d opt to stay where they are.”

I really like and respect this guy, so I changed the subject instead of saying “That’s the most ignorant thing I’ve heard in a while.”

Maybe there are belugas out there who would make that choice.  But humans have no business projecting their own sense of entitlement on to other species.


After hanging out with the Belugas for a half hour, the demonstration began:  (It’s okay, safe to watch.)



It’s apparent that the Aquarium is doing damage control for all the critics of the captive beluga breeding program.  Fortunately, these animals are not exploited to the extent their relatives are in entertainment parks, but you know what?  I wouldn’t call this a good life.

Their enclosures are alarmingly small.  For animals that are designed to migrate hundreds of thousands of miles, they’re confined to a pool that looks to be about the size of the YMCA facility where I learned how to swim.

The research program justifies the breeding and captivity of their belugas as a “control group” to compare the condition of the captive belugas to those in the wild.

To me, this is poor justification.  The life these belugas have at the Vancouver Aquarium isn’t even close to the life their bodies were designed to live.  If a human child was confined to a space that size for his or her lifetime, our culture would call it abusive.  Thanks to the stories coming from survivors of long term solitary confinement, humans are now starting to consider long-term solitary confinement a form or torture.

Political prisoners kept in solitary for a year or longer have described the experience as deadening to the soul.  They would go days without human contact, weeks talking to no one but their cell mate, or another prisoner down the hall.  They describe how their minds would slow down, how they’d learn to sit in complete blankness for hours.

In the video, the announcer talks about the “incredible relationship” the whales have with their trainers.  Under these conditions, mammals will bond with whoever cares for them, even people develop bonds with their captors.

The Vancouver Aquarium does do some amazing work.  I really enjoyed my visit, and I do encourage you to go visit too.  But I also encourage you to tell them you hope they stop the captive breeding program.

It is a tricky ethical line that they walk.  The Vancouver Aquarium is one of the only facilities that will rescue marine wildlife in distress.  They have a blind sea otter, and two pacific white-sided dolphins who were in great spirits while we visited.  They also had a female stellar sea lion who was howling at people in a territorial manner, and didn’t seem particularly relaxed in her environment.  They also have a strange and tiny exhibit of penguins.

Animals like the dolphins, the sea lion, the otters and the sea turtle would not be alive if not for the Vancouver Aquarium.  They do a LOT of rescue – rehab – release work, which is FANTASTIC.  Just that work alone makes me want to run a fundraiser for them.  But the rescued animals who can’t be released seem to be confined to alarmingly small enclosures.  I’d like to see all of the pools opened up and joined into one large enclosure for only the dolphins (rescued as babies and not releasable.)

It’s a tough call.  I really loved the indoor aquariums.  The sea turtle is in good shape, but would like a friend.

What would you like to see the Vancouver Aquarium do?  What do you think is realistic, humane and ethical?

Bug Friends


Thanks to Andrea for the lovely bug pics! This dragonfly feels like he’s ramping up to a reproductive cycle and is tasting the air. He’s super attracted to some smell.

Andrea made friends with some bugs after listening to Episode 22. More Messages from Birdies


She also spared me the photo of a tarantula. Thanks for holding that one back!

Kate on Bob Tarte’s Podcast!


(Bob Tarte talking with a Turkey)

WOO HOO! Bob Tarte recently had me on his Pet Life Radio network show “What Were You Thinking?”

A common phrase heard by us animal nuts!

Listen on the above link or better yet, find / subscribe to “What were you thinking ?” in iTunes!

Fellow animal lovers, Bob has written a book called “Enslaved by Ducks” and “Kitty Cornered.”

I had such a good time talking with Bob – we’ve been twitter friends for a couple of years now, and if you follow me on Facebook you’ve definitely seen some of Bob’s wildlife photography as I re-share it often!

Bob has one of those rare gifts with cameras – whatever being he admires, he just connects with them completely through his photography. I just love following him and I think you will too.

I recently discovered “What were you thinking?” Bob’s podcast, and I shared the crap out of it because I loved it so much and I was frankly appalled that I’d followed Bob for so long and only recently tuned into his show.

Talk about a #wastedlife!

Bob saw one of my tweets and invited me on the show! OF COURSE I leapt at it!

Thank you Bob! I hope you all enjoy it!

Ep. Guest on Carmen Spagnola’s Numinous Podcast!

kate sitka guest on carmen spagnola numinous podcast


That is the sound of me realizing I don’t HAVE TO convert an M4A (the voice memo file from my ipod) into an MP3 before I can upload a new sort-of episode to the Joyful Telepathy Podcast feed.

Here I was trying to figure out how to convert it without synching my ipod to iTunes (thus erasing everything because I synch my ipod to my HOME computer, not to my father’s computer) and it wasn’t even necessary.  WOW!

Thank you podbean for accepting M4As, this potentially makes life easier… although I think I still need to convert m4as to mp3s before I can import them into audacity…  There is a LOT of work going on behind the scenes to make a mobile podcast happen.

I wish podbean had an app for ipod so I could just do everything on the ipod without having to borrow a PC from a family member.  Sheesh!  Anyway, here’s my personal intro to Carmen’s podcast where she graciously and gracefully interviewed me for her show, the Numinous Podcast. 

Thank you everyone for listening!



Ep 20. Names! How your handle matters!

what did you call me


What’s in a name?  How does your name affect the energy you experience?  How does you name affect other people?

And PET NAMES!  Do pet’s care what they’re called?  What happens if the don’t like their name?  I share stories about pets with opinions about their names.

Did you guys know that “Kate” is not my legal name, but my preferred name?  Find out why I changed it in this week’s episode!